Heal Your Relationship After Infidelity and SEXUAL Betrayal

Empathy Based Recovery

workshop for Couples

We help couples heal from infidelity, pornography addiction, sexual addiction and integrity abuse by helping men learn EMPATHY and EMOTIONAL INTIMACY so they can restore lost TRUST, SAFETY and INTIMACY with their partners.

You feel stuck, frustrated and hopeless to heal your relationship.

You long for him to show you empathy and hold space for your pain.

You feel lonely, disconnected, blamed and invalidated.

You feel hopeless to help her heal and like nothing you do is ever good enough.

You feel like she will never “get over it” and trust you again.

You feel controlled by shame and feelings of unworthiness.

You struggle to trust yourself.

We know how you’re feeling because we’ve been there too.

Not only have we been there, but we’ve seen the same painful, frustrating

and exhausting scenario play out over and over again with our clients.

Desperate to heal the relationship following the discovery of infidelity, sexual betrayal or pornography/sexual addiction, the couple seeks counseling in an attempt to repair the relationship, only to be frustrated because he doesn’t

know how to show empathy for the pain the betrayal has caused her and she doesn’t know how to feel safe with someone who violated her trust so deeply.

He’s feeling so much shame that he can’t empathize with her. Instead of

leaning into her pain, he either withdraws or lashes out, leaving her feeling

even more lonely, abandoned and hurt.

She’s not feeling safe and he doesn’t have the tools to create that safety for her. Nothing they try seems to work because you can’t heal if you don’t feel safe.

We offer a solution that bridges the gap between the discovery of betrayal

and couples counseling. The Help Them Heal for Couples Workshop will introduce couples to the Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model (ERCEM). ERCEM is based on the premise that the betrayer must take full accountability

for his actions, consistently tell his partner he knows he is the one who caused

her pain and take ownership for the relational problems his behaviors have created so she can begin to feel safe.

Meet Sherri and Laura

Sherri Courtney is a CBT Trained Betrayal Trauma Coach dedicated to helping women and couples heal from the trauma and grief of infidelity and betrayal due to a partner's pornography/sexual addiction or other sexually compulsive behaviors. Sherri is a trained ERCEM Specialist, and is also trained in Help Her Heal, Unleashing Your Power and the Help Them Heal Workshop for Professionals. She is a Post Betrayal Transformation Coach, a Certified Deconstructing Gaslighting Specialist and a Certified Grief Recovery Method Specialist.

Laura Fisher is a Board Certified Coach trained through APSATS (Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists), Board Certified Coaching, and credentialed through the Center of Credentialing and Education. She is a trained Deconstructing Gaslighting Specialist, ERCEM specialist, and is also trained in the Help Her Heal, Help Them Heal, and Unleashing Your Power programs. She also is trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy and is working on certifying as an EFT therapist.